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v.t./i.動詞 (及物/不及物)學習
I want to learn to play the guitar.
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明明會英文但卻看不懂英語電影，為什麼？ (Why you can't understand English movies.)
- In English, we say, "You have to learn to walk before you can run." Now, before we continue the video, if you want to study English with me, check out my English at the Ready Club.
你猜怎麼著？
- In English, we say, "You have to learn to walk before you can run." Now, before we continue the video, if you want to study English with me, check out my English at the Ready Club.
你猜怎麼著？
為什麼我們談戀愛需要慢慢來？❤️ (Why We Need to Take It Slowly in Love)
- In our youngest years, we may have had to acclimatise ourselves to a very uneven supply of affection. Perhaps mother was unavailable and father was violent. There might have been a lot of sarcasm and not much patience for our sorrows or opinions. And therefore, the only way to survive would have been to withdraw, to learn to play alone and to make our peace with a restricted emotional diet. So when someone arrives in adulthood promising us a banquet, when someone lays out dish after dish of generosity and care, when someone promises us unlimited kindness and tenderness, our first response may not be joy but nausea, not delight but panic. We may be unable to absorb or metabolise any of the rich nutrients before us and, without quite knowing why, in order to maintain our poise, may have no option but to turn on our kind hosts, blame them for being weak or odd and run away. We might wish to tell them, please be so kind as not to be too kind, please be generous enough not to overwhelm me, please let me find my own way to reciprocation. On the other side of the ledger, we, the so-called generous ones, the banquet givers who like to move fast, should also be brave enough to question our behaviour. It may look as if we are being purely and simply romantic, Paris on the second date, nicknames after a week. But we may turn out to be, beneath our bold gestures, something rather more complicated and sad, untenably and unhelpfully anxious. We lose our minds if we haven't heard from them in two hours.
在我們年幼的時候，我們可能不得不適應非常不均衡的親情供應。也許母親不在身邊，父親又很粗暴。他們可能會對我們冷嘲熱諷，對我們的悲傷或意見沒有多少耐心。是以，唯一的生存之道就是退縮，學會獨自玩耍，在有限的情感飲食中求得安寧。是以，當成年後有人來到我們身邊，許諾給我們一場盛宴，當有人擺出一盤又一盤慷慨和關懷的菜餚，當有人承諾給我們無限的善意和溫柔，我們的第一反應可能不是喜悅，而是噁心，不是高興，而是恐慌。我們可能無法吸收或新陳代謝我們面前的任何豐富營養，而且不知道為什麼，為了保持我們的風度，我們可能別無選擇，只
- And therefore, the only way to survive would have been to withdraw, to learn to play alone,
輸贏一辯論成癮的真實代價？| Jefferson Fisher (Big Think+) (The true cost of always needing to win an argument | Jefferson Fisher for Big Think+)
- And when you can learn to control that moment right there, that is going to set you up for a much better conversation and a more effective communication.
如果你能學會控制那一刻，就能為更好的對話和更有效的交流做好準備。
- And when you can learn to control that moment right there, that is going to set you up for a much better conversation and a more effective communication.
溝通出錯的地方在於，當我說話的時候，我在尋找能控制你的東西。
